stop.
stop.
HE'S NOT WORTH IT.
you have already cried his weight in tears and that's far too many. He didn't deserve a single tear to his name.
HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.
I'm not saying to just get over it because I know he hurt you and that you need to heal, and that takes time. A lot of time. But don't let him pick at the scab or hinder your healing process. Don't give him the opportunity. It's like pushing on a bruise to see if it still hurts, but we both know that that just makes it worse.
let yourself heal
let yourself get better
let yourself be whole again
It's your first heartbreak, your first rejection, your first real hurt, and you've learned from it and you'll always remember it, but you don't have to hold onto or cling to it.
LET. HIM. GO.
But wait. There's more.
This isn't a process that ends and you just sit around with this story to tell and scar to show for it while your heart is still in shambles. There's a plan already written out for you.
GOD WROTE IT.
it's perfect.
He's got a man for you that he is preparing. Now this man is going to be far from perfect, but God is perfect and so is His plan. Your man is waiting for you too, praying for you, and he already loves you. He's going to have scars too so he's going to understand yours and love you for them.
This man is not going to fulfill you because that is not his purpose, but your heart won't be broken anymore. You'll be able to have joy again.
"The pain that you've been feeling can't compare to the joy that is coming." - Romans 8:18
Isn't that exciting?! Joy is coming! This pain will leave! This won't last forever, this is a promise, and it's not a promise for me, it's a promise from the Lord and his promises are perfect and He always keeps them so you can rest on that.
So forget about this heartbreaking jerk. He's not what God has or wants for you.
GOD DOESN'T WANT YOUR HEART BROKEN.
HE DOESN'T WANT YOU HURT.
He's the most protective daddy out there for all his princesses. He's also the strictest father to all of his princes. He loves all of you, and he wants and has the best planned for you
WAIT FOR HIS BEST
DO
NOT
SETTLE.
And sweet girl, do not listen to the lies that you're not good enough. You're lovely just the way you are. I know the insecurities are coming in a million a minute, but don't let them have a voice in your mind. Ignore them. You're better that.
You're not alone, you're not the only one who's been hurt. You are not unwanted. We've all been there. Heck, I am there. Right at this very moment, I am another broken hearted girl left in some pretty boy's wake. So even if you and I are the only ones suffering , I want you to know that you're not alone. I'm here to talk, to cry, to vent to, if you need it.
WE'RE NOT ALONE.
SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS.
Do not seek comfort or distraction from this world because it won't heal or comfort you. There's only one healer, one comforter, one filler of voids.
JESUS.
Oh how I love Him. He's never broken my heart or left me in the dust. He's never used me. He's never ignored me. He's never cheated on me. He's never hurt me. He romances me daily and never ever stops pursuing me. He is the most relentless lover, friend, and protector. So turn to Him. He's waiting, ready to embrace you with open arms and
HE'LL NEVER LET GO.
So sweet girl, daughter of the King, take this encouragement. Don't forget it.
stop.
HE'S NOT WORTH IT.
you have already cried his weight in tears and that's far too many. He didn't deserve a single tear to his name.
HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.
I'm not saying to just get over it because I know he hurt you and that you need to heal, and that takes time. A lot of time. But don't let him pick at the scab or hinder your healing process. Don't give him the opportunity. It's like pushing on a bruise to see if it still hurts, but we both know that that just makes it worse.
let yourself heal
let yourself get better
let yourself be whole again
It's your first heartbreak, your first rejection, your first real hurt, and you've learned from it and you'll always remember it, but you don't have to hold onto or cling to it.
LET. HIM. GO.
But wait. There's more.
This isn't a process that ends and you just sit around with this story to tell and scar to show for it while your heart is still in shambles. There's a plan already written out for you.
GOD WROTE IT.
it's perfect.
He's got a man for you that he is preparing. Now this man is going to be far from perfect, but God is perfect and so is His plan. Your man is waiting for you too, praying for you, and he already loves you. He's going to have scars too so he's going to understand yours and love you for them.
This man is not going to fulfill you because that is not his purpose, but your heart won't be broken anymore. You'll be able to have joy again.
"The pain that you've been feeling can't compare to the joy that is coming." - Romans 8:18
Isn't that exciting?! Joy is coming! This pain will leave! This won't last forever, this is a promise, and it's not a promise for me, it's a promise from the Lord and his promises are perfect and He always keeps them so you can rest on that.
So forget about this heartbreaking jerk. He's not what God has or wants for you.
GOD DOESN'T WANT YOUR HEART BROKEN.
HE DOESN'T WANT YOU HURT.
He's the most protective daddy out there for all his princesses. He's also the strictest father to all of his princes. He loves all of you, and he wants and has the best planned for you
WAIT FOR HIS BEST
DO
NOT
SETTLE.
And sweet girl, do not listen to the lies that you're not good enough. You're lovely just the way you are. I know the insecurities are coming in a million a minute, but don't let them have a voice in your mind. Ignore them. You're better that.
You're not alone, you're not the only one who's been hurt. You are not unwanted. We've all been there. Heck, I am there. Right at this very moment, I am another broken hearted girl left in some pretty boy's wake. So even if you and I are the only ones suffering , I want you to know that you're not alone. I'm here to talk, to cry, to vent to, if you need it.
WE'RE NOT ALONE.
SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS.
Do not seek comfort or distraction from this world because it won't heal or comfort you. There's only one healer, one comforter, one filler of voids.
JESUS.
Oh how I love Him. He's never broken my heart or left me in the dust. He's never used me. He's never ignored me. He's never cheated on me. He's never hurt me. He romances me daily and never ever stops pursuing me. He is the most relentless lover, friend, and protector. So turn to Him. He's waiting, ready to embrace you with open arms and
HE'LL NEVER LET GO.
So sweet girl, daughter of the King, take this encouragement. Don't forget it.